waiting months for someone who had already made their choice. i finally stopped checking the calendar and started counting the days i chose myself instead.
I think you will stop waiting when you see him move on to someone new? I don’t know, right now I think I will wait him as much as I finally understand that the pain of waiting is not worth my mental health
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waiting months for someone who had already made their choice. i finally stopped checking the calendar and started counting the days i chose myself instead.
what number are you secretly hoping someone will say?
100+
for me it gets harder everyday
I think you will stop waiting when you see him move on to someone new? I don’t know, right now I think I will wait him as much as I finally understand that the pain of waiting is not worth my mental health
That will be a hard day... and yes I feel the same way.
maybe years=We've been together. lmao thats how I loved too hard.
It took me two years to get over my previous ex
i used to count the days too, like there'd be some magic number where i'd suddenly stop hoping. for me, it happened slowly, not on a deadline.
Day 150 today, I don’t even remember the last time I thought about him.
this gives me hope
so proud of you!
It took me about 120 days. In my mind I never wanted him back, but my heart was constantly reaching for his return
Why would you wait sis, its like waiting to be back on the same situation again, ask yourself is that what you wanted?
Because I loved him.. I know I am stupied
really stopped after one month
I wish I could I am still delusional and hoping for a different outcome
@Brokenheartedgirl tbh i feel you :( mine got a new girl pretty fast so i know it's definitely over