its like pouring water into a leaky bucket and no matter how much love you pour into them, if they think they dont deserve it, its as though you did nothing. learnt it the hard way and it hurts ๐๐ spend way too much time on people who dont even love themselves
Last updated on:2026-03-03T21:34:03+05:30
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when you look back, do you feel like you were loving them or trying to save them?
i had to stop trying to prove i was lovable to someone who didnโt even like themselves. once i pulled my energy back and let him sit with his own mess, i finally felt some peace.
i dated someone like that, i kept pouring and pouring and he still felt empty. i thought if i loved him harder heโd finally see it. i was exhausted and somehow still felt like it wasnโt enough. that realization hurt like hell