Feeling lost after he found someone new

love. the emotion we all strive to find in other people yet love is a fickle fleeting emotion.

When you fall in love the first time, there will be a heartbreak behind it, never fails. your entire world you created in your mind with this person is gone. It takes time, it takes a lot of time to put your first behind you and move on. there is no easy way. cry and be angry. it hurts like hell and I hate to say it but it doesn't start to get easier to love and lost until your in your 40s. By 50s you pretty much have given up on finding the one. they either passed right in front of you or they gave up looking too.

I am 56 now. I have only seen one marriage that has lasted thru ups and downs and everything in between. they attribute it to the vowes they made in front of God. they pray for each other every day and keep the other in their minds no matter the destruction called life. it wasn't simple they say. they were tested many times but they kept God first, their spouse second and on and on. they have been together for 50 years. something that is becoming a rarity and one day a thing of the past. so ...that the reality of love. People are selfish. People only promote themselves and love is leaving this planet every single day.

enjoy love each moment you are graced to find it. treasures the misunderstandings and the fights. accept each other's flaws and mistakes and forgive each other every day. one day you may wake up and find the person you thought you knew better then anyone else besides their mother...has completely become a stranger and when that happens....rip the bandaid off....its over. Move on. There will be better days and if it's in the cards and you learned from the pain....maybe life will throw you another chance to try on and so on and so forth.

i feel like I woke up out of a dream to like something broke in me. that i can feel the bond breaking ive been obsessing over her
she started talking to me wanted to do couples therapy just to continue treating me like I was a option. when I said i dont want to feel like a option she blocked me again. the hurt started all over again this time it feels a little easier.

I know it hurts and I'm sorry. When this happens to me I just remind myself that this is God's way of telling me that he wasn't the right person for me.

my girlfriend of 5 years just casually broke every boundary in existence with her coworker only because I was busy with work and buliding our future together. some people just never see the value in what they have and still keep looking for more. it's going to hurt them in the end anyways.

did you find out directly from him or did it just show up somewhere online and hit you out of nowhere?

i hate how empty that moment feels.

its so painful. happened to me too. feels like you're stuck in the wrong reality. the worst part is that I still can't accept it. My mind is clinging to false hope that keeps me attached and in a painful competition mode. Letting go is so hard when "us" feels like the biggest part of "me".

my ex got with someone new it felt like the world just kept going without me in it. i remember thinking love was over for me too. you’re not crazy for feeling this way.

Day one is the hardest. . . Let the pain sink in first. Embrace it. Then start healing...

don't worry the best for you is coming as well