Day 273: still struggling with no contact

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This morning, I took my car to the shop which just happens to be on the same road as my ex's business. When I drove by, he was outside. It really triggered me all over again. It's been 11 months and I'm still so angry. I just want him to get his karma and to be done with this.

Last updated on:2026-03-28T06:12:11+05:30

Comments (13)

Lumiana111
Lumiana111 1 wk ago

Damn, 273 days? Girl i hope my pain won't last that long 😭

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 wk ago

It was an 8 year friendship and then a 7 year relationship. It's been an emotional roller coaster. I was doing pretty well until that happened. It's the first time I've seen him since we broke up.

cutieCCia
cutieCCia 2 wks ago

do you feel like it’s more about what he did, or how it still hasn’t felt resolved for you inside?

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 wk ago

Probably a little of both.

BlazeFox967
BlazeFox967 2 wks ago

keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know youre not alone friend ā¤ļø

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 wk ago

Thank you for your kind words. šŸ¤—

heartthreft
heartthreft 2 wks ago

i get that anger so much, for me it didn’t go away until i stopped waiting for karma to fix it and started focusing on getting MY peace back, even if it felt unfair

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 wk ago

I've been trying to move on and leave it behind. I guess I'm just not ready to forgive and forget yet. It will happen one day when I least expect it.

haaddii
haaddii 2 wks ago

i know randomly seeing my ex after months and all that anger just came rushing back like nothing had changed… it’s crazy how one second can undo so much healing

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 wk ago

I know. Time heals all wounds and time wounds all heals.

FrostTap906
FrostTap906 2 wks ago

I know this feelings

SnapBuzz123
SnapBuzz123 2 wks ago

what hurts so much it still makes you angry?

Unhealed
Unhealed 2 wks ago

He cheated on me and he's now in a relationship with her.