I decided today that I won’t continue to bring her up anymore unless I’m on the app or in my own room. I don’t want to get redundant by constantly bringing her up in all my conversations because it will keep me in the emotional distress. I love her but it’s time to let her go and to truly just focus on myself without regrets. I’m glad we had our time together and I will never regret loving someone so hard and I will continue to love her. It’s time that she becomes a memory not a emotional state. I made a lot of small wins yesterday in my life and it’s making me look forward to all my goals. I know there will come bad days where all I can think about is her memory but I’m ready to love myself as much as I loved her. Also today is officially 2 weeks that she has been completely out of my life. I have not called or seen her nor do I view her social media and the gifts she gave me (which I plan to return through a friend). I will continue to post updates about where I am in life. Thank you all for the replies.
Last updated on:2026-07-02T17:29:11+05:30
Comments (8)
i'm really proud of you for protecting your peace.
what's been your biggest small win this week that had nothing to do with your breakup?
the day i stopped making my ex the center of every conversation, and it felt like i got a tiny piece of myself back. those small wins ended up carrying me a lot farther than i expected
great progress. im trying to get there myself. todays day 1.
amazing! great progress!
yesss🙌🙌🙌🙌
I am proud of you. that isn't easy. There will be some good days and bad days but its great you are focusing on the wins. yay for you!
congratulations!! It feels good to be in peace and keep it. I also feel in peace today and decided to focus on myself, good and bad days are ahead but we got this, keep your head up!