we broke up on the 2nd of April and I cant lie it was obviously hard but it wasn't all that bad. I truly thought I was handling this breakup better than I could've imagined. Well its around 3 months later and boy was I wrong. I was super busy distracting myself when we first broke up but now that things have settled down a few months later I am struggling really badly. I've been crying non stop, everything reminds me of him, I keep blocking and unblocking him, I keep stalking his socials, I keep driving past his house etc. I genuinely dont understand why its hitting me 100x harder than when the breakup first happened. I am so exhausted, I am tired and I am so done.
Last updated on:2026-07-22T13:17:06+05:30
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i've been there with the blocking, unblocking, checking socials, all of it.
there something that changed recently, or did the silence just get loud once everything else slowed down
i was "fine" for months too, then everything crashed once life got quiet. i think the distractions wore off and i finally felt how much it HURT
oh noo this sucks I am soo soo sorry but stalking him on social media or driving by is soo not helping with your healing journey.
yeahh I know, im really trying so hard to stop. <3
@helene its the worst part of this whole thing healing doesnt happen until we sit with the pain and acknowledge our feelings and why we feel the way we feel. have you tried recording yourself or even speaking them out loud or writing them down ? its really helped me with my emotions and working through the pain
@cheekz yeahh I recently started Journaling everytime I feel off or sad and I would say I feel much relieved after. Stay strong <3
its easy to distract one self at first, but the only way to get over the pain is to go through the pain. there is no avoiding it in healing.
100%, I think its definitely learnt my lesson with that
I get that entirely. I was the one broken up with but honestly no contact is so hard. We were spending this week just looking at each other online in some form or fashion and I reached out 😩
yeah, break up hits hard. There is no way but to feel it and embrace the pain. Remind yourself that you will be okay. Also remember going back to him is not the answer. He managed 3 months without you 💔
yeah as much as it hurts, you are 100% correct <3