today he started camp for school meaning he’s gonna be busy from 8am-8pm every single day til school starts. I hate how he has a huge opportunity to get over me faster than I can get over him bcs I don’t rlly have anything going on before college. I feel so anxious knowing he’s not thinking about me the way I’m thinking about him and it’s not fair but there’s nothing I can do about it yk. I’m so tired of thinking about him I really wanna get over him.
Last updated on:2026-07-21T20:42:11+05:30
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do you think it's really that he's getting over you faster, or is your brain filling in the blanks because you can't see what his days actually look like?
I agree with everyone else! Do things for you. I now go swimming twice a week, have gotten into jigsaw puzzles (didn’t see that one coming but I’ve enjoyed it), gone to some local art club type events. It doesn’t erase the pain but it reminds you that you can do things for you and keep your mind occupied a bit more for some of the time.
me was giving myself one small thing every day that had nothing to do with him, even if it was just a walk or a coffee run. i needed something that reminded me my whole day wasn't about waiting.
beautiful advice
my ex got busy with work right after we ended, and i convinced myself he was healing faster just because he had somewhere to be every day. meanwhile i was stuck with my own thoughts 24/7.
I agree with FrostJet is there anything you can sign up for or a hobby you have always wanted to start maybe a book club or painting class? maybe even just hiking ?
I know that feeling. Is there something you can sign up for that you can look forward to? I just signed up for a 1 month yoga trial.