when you say you’re stopping being hopeful, what does that actually look like for you right now?

I'm learning to do that...I mean, I've blocked him anyway so he couldn't reach out even if he wanted to but I gave him plenty of time to talk to me before I did that, and he chose not to. I deserve better and so do you. ❤️

Yes babe! Dont mind them. They hurt you and you dont deserve that!

this part sucks, but for me, dropping hope didn’t make me colder. it made things quieter. less checking, less spiraling. not better overnight, just calmer

I've been doing that for months we'll it's more of no label breakup that makes me annoyed and confused

Hope is a bitch! I am sorry to say that. But the only way to heal is to let go of it. You can still keep the door open but kill the hope because it blocks the healing, because now it feels like you are in a constant state of waiting.

Good decision, you have the strength to succeed.

i hit that exact wall around the one-month mark too. the hope didn’t gently fade, it just… snapped. i remember thinking “ok, i’m done embarrassing myself internally.” it hurt, but it also felt weirdly honest.