I'm struggling to truly accept the reality that it's 100% over for all times. I know I should let go, but some part of me just refuses. any tips?
Last updated on:2026-03-14T20:15:10+05:30
Moving on: tips for letting go of a relationship
I'm struggling to truly accept the reality that it's 100% over for all times. I know I should let go, but some part of me just refuses. any tips?
Last updated on:2026-03-14T20:15:10+05:30
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no point thinking of someone thats not even reaching back out to me. its their choice whether they want me or not and they chose to push me away, so just accept it and remind myself this everytime. delete old things that make me cling on to false hope and erased them from every app.
what part of it feels hardest to accept right now? is it missing them, or the idea that the future you pictured with them is gone?
In my mind we are together. connected. didnt matter how good or bad the relationship was. like she was my child. it doesnt feel right to think otherwise...like, morally
delete old message, delete their photos, and focus on yourself... just do what u want to do, try new hobby, and go to hang out with your friends... make your day busy all the day then u dont have time to think about them
one thing that finally helped me was stopping the little hope loops. no checking their socials, no rereading old chats. it sucked at first but my brain slowly stopped expecting them to come back.
letting go of the hope that has kept me in the old cycle
after my breakup i kept thinking maybe we’d find our way back somehow, even months later. accepting that it was REALLY over took way longer than i wanted it to.
just let go