Why am i always starting over after breakups?

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im here again... resetting the clock.
Surely it should get easier each time.
Surely I should get stronger.
I have to let go. I have anxious attachment, so its a battle with myself, not even with him really. I've been sick the past few days so I've just been laying around thinking about things its been tough.

Last updated on:2026-07-29T12:00:32+05:30

Comments (13)

cookie
cookie 3 mths ago

you can do it
we are in this together ❤️

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 mths ago

Yes I can! We can! 🫶

swan012
swan012 3 mths ago

chasing a perfect streak and just focusing on getting through TODAY.

poundcaker
poundcaker 3 mths ago

you can do it. same situation here. we’re here for you.

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 mths ago

🥰🥰🥰

delicusbite1
delicusbite1 3 mths ago

do you think being stuck in bed is making you miss him, or is it giving your anxious mind way too much space to spiral?

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 mths ago

probably both.

VibeDream104
VibeDream104 3 mths ago

I’m so sorry. I’m an anxious attachment style too. But I see you offering good and empowering advice to others on this app, and I hope that you can turn this strength inwards too and see that you are a person worth protecting, and deserving of love that doesn’t hurt ❤️

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 mths ago

Thankyou 🫶😭

lpath081
lpath081 3 mths ago

I feel you, but each reset is a determination to get better. I too am anxious attachment and trying to heal from that. we all are here for one another

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 mths ago

Thankyou. 🫶

Geoterry
Geoterry 3 mths ago

i reset that clock more times than i can count because i'd convince myself one tiny message wouldn't matter. every reset felt like i was failing, but really i was just trying again.

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 mths ago

Ive just been hanging onto false hope. I really need to more forward.