Is it selfish to want closure after a breakup?

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It's been just under a couple of weeks nc, so I'm still lacking closure since we didn't have a proper conversation about boundaries or expectations.
I said he should take all the time he needs, and I don't want to overwhelm him (life is already busy/overwhelming as it is rn)... how much longer should I wait?
Should I leave it to him to break nc? Should I send him a message after a couple more weeks? A month? I don't know how long he needs. Is clarity good for us, or am I being selfish?

Last updated on:2026-04-19T04:57:00+05:30

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DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 15 hrs ago

Most of the time we don't get closure. Sometimes in life, there are simply no answers as much as we want them. Remember reaching out is a 2 way street. He has as much opportunity to reach out as you do, and he hasn't.