Why i broke no contact and what happened next
I messaged him, just to say hi. Sent him a friend request, which I guess he accepted/misclicked instantly lol. He replied to say "stay safe" and "keep smiling"?? He's clearly just being nice/polite
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30 days of no contact: finding myself again
30 days into no contact. It gets easier, I still think about him all the time (but I suppose that's how it is without closure...). Now I feel more like myself. I've been looking into attachment theo
Why i’m finally healing after no contact
Three weeks no contact, and my emotions are regulated, I'm thinking logically, and I'm hopeful for the future. maybe I still have a few stages of grief to cycle through, but I've accepted it. The br
How long should i wait before contacting my ex?
It's been almost 20 days no contact. We're on good terms (both just too busy, long-distance), and I've been doing much better with all the space and time to think. I don't want to rush him, I know
Why am i fawning after my breakup?
Six weeks from the breakup, two weeks into no contact... only now am I realising that I've been fawning. I felt fine to begin with, obviously sad but kind of numb. As time went by, I kept almost beggi
Why is he saying he doesn't have time for me?
He told me he was overwhelmed and doesn’t have time for me right now... is it worth holding on, or is he just trying to drop me without confrontation?
Is it selfish to want closure after a breakup?
It's been just under a couple of weeks nc, so I'm still lacking closure since we didn't have a proper conversation about boundaries or expectations. I said he should take all the time he needs, and I
Why did he ghost me after we were so close?
Really just ranting, but any advice would be appreciated. <3 Had something really lovely (long distance) for a couple of months... took it slow but clearly we were developing feelings for one another